We are located by our words; let’s choose them with care.
I was visiting a blog site a few years ago during a research-intensive about Heaven, modern-day revelators, and their experiences with the supernatural realm. In addition to reading about the near-death experiences, I also read the comments from the blog’s subscribers. There are many trolls, skeptics, and naysayers in the comment section of any internet dialogue but this often adds depth to a discussion. I encountered a man named Alive Again who cautioned fellow responders who were borderline rude while speaking doubt, skepticism, and negativity. His sentence, bolded above, shut the entire troll universe down.
I loved the statement and the inference behind it. My soul was touched by the implication and the confirmation of what I’ve always espoused. Words have power. We can invite light as well as darkness into our situation by what we say.
We must show care when we speak. One may ask, “Even when we’re angry?” My response is, “Especially when we’re angry.” Scroll back in your memory to all the words you’ve spoken to yourself as well as others. It doesn’t matter if it was an argument or a pleasant conversation. Recall it. Categorize your words. Were they positive and affirming or belittling and non-nutritive? If this means we have to think before we speak, then, by all means, let’s practice this with gusto.
How can we know if our words attract darkness? We can assess the words that we speak. If we are ‘doubt dwellers’ and negative Nans/Neds; then our words may be unsupportive and unaffirming. They are probably not life-giving or encouraging. If they beat back hope and trod on faith; it’s darkness. If they hurt hearts and fracture feelings; it’s darkness. Instead of mean tweeting, mean talking and mean mugging; let’s support, affirm, encourage and uplift one another whenever we can. Our souls will thank us later. 😉
Using any strategies to help you stay positive? Share them below.
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Zachary Rawe · May 17, 2018 at 12:03 pm
Crazy this I just had this conversation with someone else come Sunday church day about life after death and the whole spiritual realm that exists or not. Believing and feeling are two different yet similar emotions. You can believe and hold on to that wish, yet we can have an out of body feeling/experience on the same topic. You made me laugh about a “Troll stopper” because I see that all the time on forums and I have to say, a good intelligent rebuttal is an impactful one indeed.
Kennia Ortega · May 16, 2018 at 7:10 pm
Yes this post is great. i agree we shouldn’t put each other down it isn’t necessary. I agree thinking before you speak is always something we as humans should do because we don’t know if we’ll hurt someone else’s feelings but not everyone does this.
Megan · May 14, 2018 at 8:55 pm
Sadly, we live in a world where we’re so bold to say whatever is on our mind, no matter who it hurts. If everyone practiced thinking before speaking, I think the world would be a much better place.
Grecia Magana · May 14, 2018 at 4:13 pm
I agree 100%. We have to watch we say because when we get angry we speak out things that have no sense. These might pick at the cut deeper and that person not caring speaks without thinking of the consequences. That’s no good. Its bad juju. One way to start, is to think before you speak. Breath and gather your feelings in order to express them right. Think of the consequences. Think about what could you or the other person come down to prevent this or lower down the flame to it. these are just some suggestions i believe could help.
Jacky · May 12, 2018 at 7:52 pm
Words are often the words that could impact a persons life whether good or bad, but that’s why we have to think before we tell the person . I always tell myself to listen to what the person has to say then respond in a good way. Sometimes as humans we have to train ourselves to listen first.
admin · May 14, 2018 at 11:13 am
Indeed! I have to train myself to listen first. There is an old proverb: Be slow to speak and quick to listen. I try to follow that wisdom although I do admittedly fall short at times. *insert eye roll emoji*
Mariah · May 10, 2018 at 3:20 pm
It is nice to know that there is still people out there who cares about the thoughts of others as well as encouraging others to do good and do good by their peers
Favi · May 10, 2018 at 3:17 pm
I really like this post the part where it said words have power we can invite light as well as darkness into our situation by what we say. This really true people can really bring this upon themselves
Mayra Gonzalez · May 10, 2018 at 2:59 pm
The strategy that I tend to use is reflection. I reflect on all the good God has blessed me with. I am not referring to materialistic things but to being blessed with a job, good health and a supportive and loving family and friends. It helps me calm down. It helps me view the tough situation in a different manner.
Rene · May 10, 2018 at 2:56 pm
Words do have power. Speaking out on whats on your mind is pretty amazing. People usually don’t because they are scared or nervous. Even when they are upset. Don’t hold in any thoughts, and just let the people hear. My strategies is to stay calm and don’t overthink. Overthinking can lead to stress.
Manuel Payan · May 10, 2018 at 2:54 pm
Words can mean a lot and can effect lots of people so be careful with your words.
Tina Weaver · May 10, 2018 at 2:46 pm
In regards to the question above, I use the art of the tongue being a double edged sword. It can speak life or speak death. And honestly after being such a direct person all my younger years, I allowed maturity to have its place, and grow me into a woman. My strategy is a woman should not speak as a little girl. I put away childish things and became the woman GOD made me to be. though I will never stop learning, I embrace the wisdom that comes with aging.
admin · May 10, 2018 at 4:56 pm
Very nicely and succinctly stated, Tina! We have to think about what we say before we say it. I agree. A word spoken in anger is like a dagger to the heart for all eternity.
Sandra Leonhardt · May 10, 2018 at 2:41 pm
Usually I say to myself that the light gets brighter at the end of the tunnel.
admin · May 10, 2018 at 5:02 pm
Right on! That is a great saying to have, Sandra.
admin · May 9, 2018 at 6:48 pm
What strategies do you use to help you stay positive in tough situations?